The saying that you are your biggest critic, couldn’t be more true when it comes to me. I always feel like I have done the wrong things and made the wrong choices. And now that feeling has been intensified after having Chumpy. All my plans changed when I gave birth and now I feel like I just go through the motions of just trying to survive . It was after talking with my friends and sisters, that I realized maybe it is o.k. not having my life totally together. I have come to realize that I am at a point where I need to forgive myself and make new plans for my life. Its o.k. to now having my life together and learning along the way. Its’ fine saying that I am doing o.k. So for all the moms out there who are self doubting or thinking they don’t have it together, IT IS O.K.!!! We are all in this together!!!